The Fear of Failure

I remember back in High School I wrote a speech about the fear of failure. I remember how I said failure is good for you.

How you may ask.?

Because I kinda think it gives you a second chance, and a 3rd chance, and a 4th chance and many chances after that to be able to right your wrongs. Everybody deserve chances, no matter how many they may be.
Failure is worth another try, nothing is as painful as the "what if's", the "if only's", and the "should have's", I don't want to live in that world where I wonder and roam in futile thoughts of what could have been.

Failure is good, its good for you, its good for me
And guess what? Its good for all of us.
So you just get up, dust yourself up, and for what you may ask?
Well because you have unlimted tries
Try, try and try again till you get it right.

As I text this I got to Rosebank College at 2013 and have failed 2 modules so far, yet stayed home because of financial problems, I'm trying once more as I'm doing my 3rd year because I know failure can't get one down permanently unless one wants to stay there.

ND: Public Relations Practitioner and Events/Project Manager

T- think again
R- reevaluate
Y- you can do it...

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